OK once again… As much as this topic has been discuss there is always something to add, some new opinion or position from a different perspective. I came at it from a couple of different angles in the past… but now I have yet another position, well… two positions.
1) People cheat (men and women) because they are getting something else where that they do not get at home. It may be that they aren’t asking for it or don’t feel right asking for it but the fact still remains that they (the cheater) is not completely satisfied. People are inherently selfish.
2) Is cheating morally wrong? No, it actually makes sense for guys to have multiple sex partners. Why, you ask?… Subconsciously we crave sex because it increases our chance of reproductive success. Men are capable of having over 1000 children in their life time. Women on the other hand are limited to about 25 pregnancies. So in order for a man to maximize his reproductive success he needs to have a large number of sex partners.
Number two is an interesting perspective… and you can’t really argue it. Well… I’d like you to try 
Oh, before I forget, please comment. I'd like to know your thoughts.
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9 responses so far ↓
1 Chantal // Apr 1, 2008 at 1:22 pm
Lol you are hilarious… I dont even know how to reply to this because it really does not make sense. . And you know that it doesnt.. But its funny
2 cheryl // Jun 11, 2008 at 10:48 am
that’s bullshit
3 Ludny // Jun 17, 2008 at 3:25 pm
you wanna kno what my theory on it…gotta throw in some science on that one..so its going to get nerdy..be weary..lol
men have multiple sex partners so they can have reproductive success…BULLSHIT! not when men are not even taking care of their kids…do you watch the Maury show…my point exactly…so genetically men will begin to evolve to not want to bang mad chicks..cause they cant take care of their kids…but thats mad generations from now..so until then..men cheat cause they cant keep their things on lock…SELF CONTROL..
i cant believe you wrote this…role model you are not! j/k
4 rey // Jun 17, 2008 at 8:01 pm
lol… ok lets get nerdy! the human brain has not changed it’s basic instincts in 10,000 years! evolution is SLOW… we may evolve to not want to “bang mad chicks” but it probably won’t happen for another 10,000 years so don’t hold your breath. All the things I talked about in the article is on a subconscious level. I know for a fact i do not want kids, but i do want sex, which leads to kids. So logically i shouldn’t have sex or want to. But my brain is like “Dude are you stupid? have sex Dammit!” it’s natural.
5 Ludny // Jun 18, 2008 at 2:32 pm
iight iight u caught that….whatever..i shouldve known not to go toe-to-toe with a NJIT negro….geeez…lol
still…my point…men and women both want sex equally..but because men have and outie vs an innie…its easier to get it..
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6 MINA // Jul 11, 2008 at 8:19 pm
Well my response is some people just want to have their cake and eat it too. I don’t cheat, but I certainly do what I want (wink wink). In other words, I don’t involve myself in a relationship because I wouldn’t like to do that to anyone nor would I want karma to come back and get me. Ladies, make sure the dude wraps it up ALL the time. And Fellars, if you love sex WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE all the time, relationships aren’t for you and don’t be afraid to say it. Lots of women out their are just looking for a good bang too. PROTECTION PROTECTION PROTECTION!!!!
7 rey // Jul 19, 2008 at 11:15 am
Not too many people are open and honest about their needs… if everyone was we wouldnt be having this discussion… you’re one in a million Mina!
8 Marv // Jul 24, 2008 at 11:45 am
Women say they want the truth but in reality they cannot handle the truth! Men are conquerors of women by nature so we have to stop pretending that that isn’t the case. We are the predators and they are the prey. I didn’t make it that way, nature designed it that way. This is why men have multiple sex partners with very little feelings attached. With that being said, when you are involved in a relationship, you are obligated to you partner so cheating as we understand it is wrong. Though it is hard for us (men) to fight our sexual impulses, deceiving our partner is still wrong. So to the fellas, if you wan to get your freak on and bang many chicks, do what I do: stay single!
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